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Childhood BFFs Grace Bourey and Kristin Stanhope chat about the ridiculous, frustrating, and hilarious aspects of life with AuDHD. Through ever-changing segments, raw musical expression, and interpretive dance that you can‘t see, we‘ll take you on a journey into the beautiful, chaotic experience of having ADHD and autism. Whether you‘re AuDHD yourself, you‘re looking to better understand an AuDHDer in your life, or you just want a peek inside our weird creepy brains, come join our flock! New episodes come out every Thursday. You can follow us on Instagram and TikTok @weirdsofafeather and check out our website at weirdsofafeather.com. For more fun bonus content, come join our Patreon at patreon.com/weirdsofafeather. Our cover art was created by WOAF‘s AuDHD artist-in-residence Christopher Wynn, check out more of his amazing work on Instagram @bun.e.rabbit. Our theme song was composed and performed by Grace‘s father Steve, you can find him jammin‘ in his basement or playing with his dad band The Grey Matters. All other music is written and performed by Synchronized Night Boat, the official band of Weirds of a Feather.
Episodes

Sep 25, 2025
Sep 25, 2025
1 hr 7 min
Huzzah! We’re back with the Jane Goodall of human interactions, Tori Pinheiro, to hear more about her menagerie of neurodivergent traits.
In Part 2, Tori tells us about her traumatic brain injury, the ways it exacerbated her AuDHD needs, and the lifestyle changes she’s made to accommodate her healing brain. We also get into nighttime dance walks, accent mimicry, decision paralysis, relational therapy, synesthesia, and a Pizza Secret that changed the trajectory of Tori’s life and her relationship to paperwork for the better.
Resources
Tori’s Nighttime Dance Walk Playlist
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Sep 19, 2025
Sep 19, 2025
57 min
Chickens, raptors, and corvids, oh my! This episode, we’re virtually sitting down with local bird woman and Grace’s close friend and grad school roommate, Tori Pinheiro, to chat bird-based hobbies, AuDHD, rat sacks, neurodivergent friendships, stroganoff season, and so much more.
In Part 1 of our conversation, Tori shares about her ADHD diagnosis, why she initially resisted the autism aspect of her AuDHD and what finally changed, how stimulant medication reduced her social anxiety, the internalized shame that comes with being an odd AuDHD child, and the ways she accommodates her sensory needs now (for the sake of herself and everyone around her).
Resources
Visit our website: weirdsofafeather.com
Follow us on TikTok: @weirdsofafeather
Watch full-length episodes on Youtube: youtube.com/@weirdsofafeather
Join our Reddit community: reddit.com/r/WeirdsofaFeather/
Find us on Instagram: @weirdsofafeather
Become a Patreon member for bonus content: patreon.com/weirdsofafeather

Sep 5, 2025
Sep 5, 2025
1 hr 3 min
Open your ears and avert your eyes (especially if they’re blue) because we’ve got a juicy Just Segs for your listening pleasure, but only if you promise not to make eye contact with us.
This episode, we’re discussing the privileges of summer babies and calling for more adult birthday parties, sharing some incredibly ADHD and at times death-defying Quirks, learning a horrifying fact about killing lobsters (turns out we’re all doing it wrong), and revealing shameful Pizza Secrets that were, admittedly, a little funny in the moment.
Resources
Visit our website: weirdsofafeather.com
Follow us on TikTok: @weirdsofafeather
Watch full-length episodes on Youtube: youtube.com/@weirdsofafeather
Join our Reddit community: reddit.com/r/WeirdsofaFeather/
Find us on Instagram: @weirdsofafeather
Become a Patreon member for bonus content: patreon.com/weirdsofafeather

Aug 21, 2025
Aug 21, 2025
59 min
Put on your dancing pants and get ready to split ‘em, because we’re reliving our silliest wedding guest experiences and it’s crucial that you have a wide range of motion on the dancefloor.
This Bagel Bite, we’re chomping on a tasty shmorg of wedding shenanigans, creative inspiration for ADHDers stuck in perfectionism, Kylie Corner, and some risqué low-stakes conspiracy theories that just may inspire the next great Bravo reality series.
Resources
Visit our website: weirdsofafeather.com
Follow us on TikTok: @weirdsofafeather
Watch full-length episodes on Youtube: youtube.com/@weirdsofafeather
Join our Reddit community: reddit.com/r/WeirdsofaFeather/
Find us on Instagram: @weirdsofafeather
Become a Patreon member for bonus content: patreon.com/weirdsofafeather

Aug 14, 2025
Aug 14, 2025
1 hr 32 min
If you’re looking for polite conversation and maximum eye contact, this may not be the episode (or podcast) for you, because we’re autistically staring right past each other as we discuss the ins and outs of recreational arguing.
We’re appointing ourselves the official Founding Fathers of recreational arguing, aka competitive thinking, and providing some official guidelines to help you achieve that sweet, sweet dopamine without destroying your friendships.
We’re also weighing in on your family’s most controversial Scattergories answers, sharing cases of recreational arguing gone wrong, and trying our best to control the rage that’s always bubbling right below the surface.
Resources
Craving Drama and Starting Arguments When You Have ADHD. – ADD Resource Center
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Watch full-length episodes on Youtube: youtube.com/@weirdsofafeather
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Become a Patreon member for bonus content: patreon.com/weirdsofafeather

Aug 8, 2025
Aug 8, 2025
55 min
Kristin is winding down her ADHD & addiction series for now with a discussion about the comorbidity rates of substance use disorder (SUD) for ADHDers. She’s covering the potential for stimulant misuse, why treating the ADHD first is crucial for SUD recovery, and how to approach treatment with a focus on harm reduction.
Plus, Kristin has a new enemy (it’s always nice to have something to hate), Grace is a responsible planner for once (kinda), and we introduce a BOD that just may be the new autistic superhero of a generation.
References:
Challenges of Treating ADHD with Comorbid Substance Use Disorder: Considerations for the Clinician
Substance Abuse Treatment with Comorbid ADHD: A Clinician’s Guide
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Jul 31, 2025
Jul 31, 2025
1 hr 31 min
Grab your spelunking helmets, pack up your mountaineering gear, and then toss it into a fire, because we’re staying firmly planted at sea level for the foreseeable future and we highly suggest you do the same.
This episode, we’re sharing our morbid curiosities of the moment in This Is Who I Am Now, getting all worked up about one specific episode of House in I’m So Quirky, revealing Inappropriate Questions We’ve Asked Someone in Alternative Segments, and wiggling out of a jam in Pizza Secrets.
Resources
Visit our website: weirdsofafeather.com
Follow us on Youtube: youtube.com/@weirdsofafeather
Join our Reddit community: reddit.com/r/WeirdsofaFeather/
Find us on Instagram: @weirdsofafeather
Become a Patreon member: patreon.com/weirdsofafeather
To keep this horse train running (but this isn’t a threat): ko-fi.com/weirdsofafeather

Jul 25, 2025
Jul 25, 2025
1 hr 18 min
In our never-ending quest to figure out what the hell’s wrong with us, we’re exploring the under-discussed topic of aphantasia, aka the ability to visualize.
This episode, Grace is covering the basics of what aphantasia is, how we know some people really are seeing pictures in there, and how to measure your own mental imagery abilities on a 1-5 scale, all while lovingly bullying you into accepting that most of you aren’t actually visualizing, you’re just remembering what stuff looks like.
Resources
Aphantasia: What It Is, Causes, Symptoms & Treatment
-r/Aphantasia on Reddit
Aphantasia Network Communities:
-Aphantasia Network Membership Community
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Jul 17, 2025
Jul 17, 2025
52 min
Hold onto your britches because Kristin put this Bagel Bite together, so prepare for chaos.
This episode we’re getting into the practicalities of Medusa’s hair snakes, sharing dish-based Lil’ ‘Plishes, debating whether scrubs are the perfect solution for ADHDers in the Wet Little Fronts club, and sharing fun listener conspiracy theories that don’t question the validity of science.
Resources
Visit our website: weirdsofafeather.com
Follow us on Youtube: youtube.com/@weirdsofafeather
Join our Reddit community: reddit.com/r/WeirdsofaFeather/
Find us on Instagram: @weirdsofafeather
Become a Patreon member: patreon.com/weirdsofafeather
To keep this horse train running (but this isn’t a threat): ko-fi.com/weirdsofafeather

Jul 10, 2025
Jul 10, 2025
58 min
In this 1:1 interview, Grace finally gets her wonderful mother-in-law Judy into the pod loft for an AuDHD chat.
